sometimes its not nice to be too nice.. people expect u to be nice to them and take u for granted... thats what usually happen in this society of ours.. sometimes when u talk to others, u mus c if the person is interested in talking to u, if not u wil be like an idiot talking to urself.. sometimes, u mus be prepared that people will be nice to u if they need ur help.. if u dun reply them, they will expect u to say yes.. sometimes, its not nice to be considerate cos pple may not think for u jus as how u think for them... sometimes, it doesnt pay to be kind, cos people looks for entertainment and fun in u.. not the kind of warmth n helpfulness that u spread throughout.. this is an ugly world... a truly ugly world that one has to expect... sometimes we have to let things be.. and learn to adapt it...